...a way of seeing beyond inner and outer.

Monday, May 16, 2011

Perfect timing:

    Years ago, I decided I wanted to change my life or I wanted to be without one, so I radically changed my life and stayed happily in the quiet peace of coming home to myself for a few years. While I don't regret the use of that time,  a shift occurred a year and a half ago. The last of my children left home.
   They now fly. Sometimes they do so with wings confused by fear, how things look from the business below them,  by "can't" or "shouldn't", but the message of who they really are is getting through enough that they do fly and their bravery was enough to make me want to do the same so I decided to leave the quiet of the nest for wider breezier skies of something unknown, but more. A lot more.
      I thought maybe the same sort of unflinching examination that changed my life once before could do it again, but this time with fun, and bliss as the only aim.  After all, I already had peace.
   This blog began, unfocused, a twisting flight of my own in an unknown direction until I realized what I wanted to do with it, and where I wanted it to fly, but almost as soon as I did, blogger flat lined. Within days of a more focused pursuit of life change, a business, a project, a game of "let's upend what we think about our limitations, our problems." blogger stopped working..

I do not believe in coincidence. I believe in our "aft"-selves who stir up the breezes of time and if we're attentive, we know it's time to fly.  This is the perfect moment to move from blogger to a self hosted website.
Why not?
I hope you'll join me.
Why not?

The link to and a blog button for the new website,
CookedHeads The Blog

This perfect moment was inspired and illuminated by Lori at WriteMindOpenHeart
whose children gave her the best pedicure I've ever seen in my entire life.


  1. Would want to know your new website address.
    Loved reading your blog

  2. Jimmy,
    I can't tell you thank you enough for reminding me of what one would think are the most basic of tasks, but I'm going to blame much too much youth in my youth and move on with correcting the oversight.
    The new website is www.cookedheads.com/blog
    and the CH with all the bubbles is a link to the site directly.
    I'm so glad you are enjoying all this quasi-intentional madness enough to take the leap.

  3. Wow. You did that fast. It took me WEEKS once I decided to take the leap.

    Heading over...

  4. Lori,
    You know. I've watched you know. Some times, some things just happen so easily you know you had nothing to do with it. I had nothing to do with it.

  5. I'm going to stay put, but will follow you wherever you go. Have a great evening. Blessings...Mary

  6. Mary,
    I don't even wonder any more that you are wiser than me. It just sort of blows through the breeze of the digital ether. In my next life, I will stay put exactly where I dropped down, but in this life, I'm still recovering from my time as a bedouin. All that's left is to wonder whether I was the princess or the camel, but I suspect either extreme had it all figured out. t

  7. I am following you wherever you go lol. But i am staying loyal to blogger (I just am not tech savvy enough to try THAT).

  8. Hmm... That is good news.Will sure follow your site.You deserve to have a site of your own.

    Nothing happens by chance.There is a purpose for everything in life.

  9. I admit that I have to read every other word for context because you're so deep in your expressions (my problem, not yours:), but yes, will hop on over.
    We seem to be traveling in the same direction, but on different parallel roads. This year I feel I have the time to dip and dabble into many different fun things to see what cream rises to the top, what speaks to me.
    Enjoy your journey!

  10. My blogroll's updated, babe!
    Here, check out this YouTube clip.
    From me to you:


  11. GG,
    Deep is just 1 millimeter deep and a million square meter wide turned on its side. I promise, I'm shallow and cover a lot of ground. You're rooted so much deeper than you even know.

  12. Jeff,
    you the man, man... and this is me checkin The Tube!

  13. Dr. A,
    Your kind words brought a smile to my day. Thank you for them as for following along. I agree with your take on chance and purpose and would even go so far as to say we're inundated with "suggestions" to go in what will ultimately be the direction of what is benevolence

  14. Jeff,
    hahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaa! You .. well, just You. That's plenty. ;)


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